2013 was five years ago let that sink in
lmao this blog has been inactive for so long that tumblr snatched my url im crying
if u still follow me here (why?) u should follow me on @aesthefemme
YOU GUYS IT’S DECEMBER 10TH YOU DON’T UNDERSTAND THIS HAS BEEN IN MY QUEUE SINCE FEBRUARY
if yall can’t handle cellulite or stretch marks or freckles in weird places or natural hair that grows on the woman’s body then plz just tell me how it feels to be weak ? lmao (:
Just so we’re clear, like almost every other normal citizen out there in the world, I love fat people the best. Like you, I instinctively value them and their opinions and abilities and general character more than those of thin people based on their culturally-celebrated and sanctioned appearance. But sometimes I meet a thin person who is just so cool and beautiful and charming it is almost as if they aren’t even thin AT ALL. It’s like, if I really thought about it, they might even challenge my internalized ideas about thinness being innately unattractive and I might be forced to come to terms with my possible attraction to them. To think of them as just people, as complex and varied and as deserving of basic respect as fat people. But I don’t want to lose social capital over this shit, you know? I don’t want to have explain to my friends/family that even though all of culture is telling me thin people are gross, it just doesn’t feel right (intellectually, or in my pants). So, instead, when thin people’s size–and the stigma they experience as a result of it–comes up in conversation l make sure to say “oh, I don’t even think of you AS THIN at all.” Then I do my best to treat them as honorary fat people in my heart.
remember when that one interviewer asked 1d who their teen idols were and zayn was talking to niall about how he liked the power rangers and then niall was like ‘tell them’ and the interviewer was like ‘zayn?’ and zayn was like ‘umm….’ and then niall was like ‘what you just said to me’ and then zayn was like ‘ummmmm i didnt really have one’ and then niall was like ‘tell them what you said to me’ and zayn was like ‘i used to watch a lot of power rangers…’ and then niall was like ‘there you go!!!’ im not crying :):